Hi everyone. I recently (as in a week ago) started seeing someone who is poly. I have always been mono and plan on staying it. He has 2 partners and solo dates, though his partners do know each other.

I guess my thing is where do I start with this? I want to know what’s right to do what’s not right. I have asked a few questions and he told me I could ask whatever I want and he would answer as best as he could but how do I know where to draw the boundary?

How do I know what is too much in terms of expecting attention and talking? I think dating someone poly could be good for me because I’m not a fan of texting 24/7 and seeing each other every day. It’s nice to say have a good night at 5pm bc he has a date night with one of his partners and not have to deal with it but I do enjoy talking to him when we are talking.

I guess just give me any advice you have as a new comer. Not sure what I’m even asking lol.

Thanks in advance!