Hey Reddit,

I wanted to share something personal I’ve been reflecting on lately. After five or six fantastic months, my online dommie and I have decided to end our dynamic due to her being super busy with work and life in general. To be honest, I’m not angry at all—I completely understand how life can get in the way. What makes it particularly hard is how upfront and communicative she was about it - not complaining about her being like that I would be been heartbroken if she just deleted her account but In this world of BDSM and kink, finding someone who prioritizes communication is like striking gold and it made me appreciate her so much more even at the end of a beautiful journey.

Throughout our time together, she helped me explore so many new kinks that I never really thought I’d be into. From light bondage and chastity to some really fun roleplay, I felt like I could truly express myself and my desires without any judgment. She created a safe space for me to discover and enjoy my kinks, pushing my boundaries in the best ways possible while always ensuring I felt comfortable. For that, I’m genuinely grateful.

But now, with this ending, I’m feeling a bit vulnerable. I think it’s natural to feel this way when we share something so intimate and meaningful with someone. Even though I understand and respect her decision, it’s a reminder of how challenging it can be to find someone who connects with us on this level—someone who gets us and communicates. So, I guess I just wanted to express my appreciation for the journey we shared and acknowledge how difficult it is to say goodbye. If anyone else has been through something similar, how did you cope? Any tips on finding a new partner in this space?

Thanks for listening. ❤️