I had some inkling of this dynamic, but I honestly never even knew there was a subreddit for this!

I've been trying to figure out what type of fetish I've recently been into... And I don't know if it's specifically a mommy domme kink, but I feel like it spills into that category quite often.

I have a praise kink. A strong praise kink that leads me to telling women, in detail, what I love about them. What I love about their style of fashion, or their favorite make-up looks, or their favorite yarn to crochet sweaters and blankets and hats into.

I have had the pleasure of meeting wonderful women. Unfortunately, these same women have felt unheard, feelings invalidated, and thoughts brushed off. It makes me incredibly sad to hear about women out there who feel neglected and their interests/hobbies/passions are completely ignored.

I have wanted nothing more than to listen. Listen, engage, make their voice heard, and their feelings validated. I want to make them feel happy. I want to make them feel like people out there do care about them. Make them feel like there are people out there who enjoy listening... Who enjoy watching smiles grow from cheek to cheek.

There is nothing that gets me more excited... And when aroused, instantly fucking hard, than a woman who is happy. I love seeing people happy in general, but it crosses my wires and leaves me standing at attention when a sexual partner is happy.

You're probably wondering where this all leads down to...

Well, if I had to set a scene... A handjob or a blowjob where my partner isn't just focusing on me... But actually conditioning me through talking. Lots of talking. Yapping my ear off. Making sure that I'm listening to every word. I know, it sounds super counterintuitive, but I do actually pay attention! It is this very fantasy that has clouded my mind for months now. This very thought. This conditioning, almost as if molding me into the perfect toy for her. Conditioning me into falling in love with every single one of their interests, talking to them about their days, and even showing me her Pinterest board of what she'd like her new winter wardrobe to look like.

I know, it sounds very weird, and like... Not sexual at all... But it really is for me. It's probably the most attractive part of a woman for me. Her face, and her personality. Her smile, and her words.

I guess I just genuinely need some guidance because I'm honestly not even sure if this counts as a "Mommy domme" kink.