I don’t know about other mommies but it’s not easy finding a good, long-term sub. One that doesn’t use you as a kink dispenser, and is compatible in every other way (romance and interests are important). One that is devoted and respectful and remembers that dommes are not these perfect untouchable beings and that we also need support.

I see a lot of subs on here really upset that they can’t find a Domme. Trust me, you are not the only kinky fucker who feels like they’ll never find that one! There’s a lot that goes into a committed and healthy D/s dynamic, especially if it’s a 24/7. Meeting someone, getting to know them in a non-sexual setting, is important. Discussing boundaries and limits and understanding each other on a deeper level.

You don’t get that safety of being held by her, knowing that it’s just you two against the world, knowing she has your back and you have hers.. overnight. It’s a process. As a Domme, I think the most attractive thing a sub can do is be patient and take the time to get to know themself on a deeper level while they wait for the right person to come along. Don’t be afraid to reach out and make your move! But also understand that with the more time you wait, and really take the time to understand your needs and why you want a dynamic, the better it will be when you finally click with that one special lady 💕

At least that’s what I tell myself. It’s hard out here being a freak. But other freaks exist. Hope y’all cuties have a lovely day~