Yeah. I am giving up. I tried being a sub for a long time now and it takes a toll on my mental health. It just don´t work for me. Either its a paid dom (which are likely a scam, not all but most of em). Or she doesn´t even reply to you. (ok, fair. she probably get a LOT of messages of PICK ME! Subs daily.) Or the worst kind: You text on reddit she tells you she pref messeging service XYZ, you text her, she texts you back and than she ghosts you. I sorry if stepped on some feet with my post but this is probably the worst thing about this kink. You are all lovely people. Humorous, kind, protective and sweet. Take care, be safe. I see myself out.