So when you are not in the mdlb or mdlg dynamic what is it that you look for in a partner? Do you enjoy staying in the dynamic 24/7 or do you prefer that it is done in moderation?

I personally feel that moderation is the key to anything and that if I was to be kept in or as a little all the time that I would get frustrated as there is many things in life that to people should agree on. Now granted this all goes on with the type of relationship also. For example the mommy brings home more then enough money and only wishes that you clean house and make sure that when she comes home all she has to do is take care of you and that is what is agreed upon is different. But I see that mostly as a fantasy for most. I believe that a relationship should come first and understanding and respecting ones boundaries are important and also compromise. Sorry for rambling and please give me your thoughts.