A lot of posts I see from fellow subs are pity posts, or well disguised as them. Which is okay, this is a wonderfully safe place to vent and chat. I love it for that, but I want to spread some positivity. As someone who has been betrayed, abused and manipulated in all my previous relationships. I want to tell you to not quit, no buts. No but I don't think this or that, or I don't have the confidence. Be genuine, try and find that person because if you do they will find you too. No matter how hopeless it seems, it only becomes hopeless when you lose hope. When you give up, then it's lost. No matter how little you try, the factor of you trying will make a difference. Trust me, it will. You might find bad relationships, but it's still possible to make good memories from them. To find happiness even for a moment. You can find love, you deserve love. Be yourself, be kind and it will find you too. To all subs, it's okay to be afraid, to not know. Just don't give up