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I've always found comparisons to be normal, and can even be healthy. It's when they start getting negative--thinking that a third treats you better or something like that--that problems arise. In those instances, there are probably other issues that need to be discussed and worked on. But again, since we've never dealt with it, it's a bit speculation on my part.
It's not random at all! In fact, I think it's a great question!
It's never actually happened with us, but I think it's all about communication. If feelings happen to come up, I imagine we'd talk about it, and perhaps even explore them in a safe way. The important thing is to never make your partner feel like they aren't the most important person in your life. So if either of us ever encountered some unhealthy jealousy about a third, we'd probably stop seeing them until we were able to resolve those feelings.
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Exactly as it should be! 😉