My wife (f25) came out to me (M25) as lesbian two months ago. We have been together 6 year and married 3. Together we have a 17 month old daughter. In the past two weeks or so we have really dipped and can't decided what the best move to do is for the both of us and our daughter. One option we always talk about it opening the marriage for my wife to explore her lesbian side. I am open to this and think I'll deal with it okay. My wife thinks she'll just hurt me and cause me pain by doing this to me.

I really want to try this and make it work. Can anyone advise on the details about how to safely navigate this and how to deal with any stress/jealousy/anger and any other emotions that are involved with an open marriage. Please be as open and truthful with everything and so we know what to expect and we won't hurt each other