Hello! 👋 I’d like to see who would be interested in helping me create a small group of Montanan men who would like to practice ethical kink, group hook-ups, group kink scenarios and/or group kink lifestyle. Our group may involve outside interactions (women men etc.), and our rendezvous would be all inclusive. But our focus would be on bettering ourselves, supporting each other, and cultivating the best experience for our partners as possible.

Imagine if we could create a group of men who hold each-other to higher standards? No creepiness, no lies, no gross behavior, and no unrealistic expectations. We vet our own members, practice kink, share our experiences, and grow our confidence.

We could organize events, practice anonymity, share resources and information and be classy. We could reference partners, or GROUP UP for partners, and feel comfortable doing it.

We would be able to practice masculine behavior, hygiene and safety. If anyone was interested in learning new styles, tips and tricks, or places and people to experience, they could learn from people who had already been there.

You may be single, partnered, or married. You may be 21 or 55. The main requirement is that you be male. You would not be bullied or judged for your preferences as long as you behave ethically and respectably. Consent would be pivotal with all sexual interactions within or outside the group. And if anyone would be caught displaying disrespectful or predatory behavior, they would be ousted from the group immediately.

— My reason for why to make a group, is that I think we, as ‘available’ Montanan men, desperately need something to weed out the trash and rule out the perverts. We need a trustworthy reference to point to in order to put people’s minds at ease. Because frankly, most dating apps, forums and social media kink sites posses a tremendous glut of pond scum for men, and that means that any man with good intentions and a safe personality is going to get buried by bots and toxic fuckwads. 😑

I’d like to have a small and tight group that people could point to and say, with whom, that they had a phenomenal experience. Casual or non-casual. We would be honorable men, while we practice less-than-honorable kink with our partners. 😉

Think of almost as a Knighthood. But for kink.

Yeah, I can imagine some of you might think this idea is stupid. And that is totally fine. I don’t believe it would be for everyone. But I want to start finding a solution, and I will head this project if enough people would find it interesting. I’ll probably start by making a discord if it gets enough traction (just because it’s free and has the best organization tools).

My DM’s are open to anyone who would be interested.

TLDR: I’d like to start a group for men who want to practice safe and respectable kink.