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My brother took my charger with him to his work without asking my permission and argued with me about it
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This is his first shift for this work – he’s basically sanding wood boards for tiles the whole day.

We live in the same house. Our parents bought us our own chargers, one each, so we can charge our phones and tablets. He broke his I don’t even know how many months ago and I’ve been letting him borrow mine ever since. He hasn’t bought another one because he’ll have to pay for it himself.

He left the house while I was still asleep this morning. I told my dad and he didn’t seem too bothered that my brother basically stole it. He just told me to go down and buy another one that he can reimburse me for. I’m of course thankful that my dad is so generous that he’d still be willing to pay for it, but I feel like he’s missing the point.

My brother is naturally stubborn and it’s made worse because he has diagnosed level two autism. He genuinely never thinks he’s in the wrong. He thinks everyone who argues with him is gaslighting him or twisting things around. He does this sort of thing a lot, ever since we were kids. Since he was diagnosed about last year, he hasn’t been getting adequate punishment for this kind of behaviour because he can’t help it. I know it’s true, that he can’t, but it just makes me feel like he can walk all over me and not get any consequences.

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I mean, he's held it down for one day so far, based on how he comes across in this single post I suspect that could change quickly lmao

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exactly LMAO i suspect bro is in for a rude awakening (yay, good)

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OP are you sure you're not also autistic? this paralyzing overthinking of every side of the issue, inability to clearly verbalize boundaries when you are being wildly disrespected, conflict avoidance, these are all traits i have seen in autistic friends or acquaintances: traits that have rendered them total doormats, constantly second-guessing themselves, easily taken advantage of and abused. go to his job, take your charger back, and give him a good smack upside the head for your trouble. he's gonna have a very rude awakening if he tries this schtick on anybody else in his life

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Taking the shoe, just one is the move. It makes people crazy and to question their sanity. Plus they get to look at the one shoe that they'll never toss knowing for a fact that it's mate will turn up sometime. Shouldn't have had sex with my girlfriend, right Dave?

show him this post/these comments lmao. he's been universally deemed a giant, wildly disrespectful asshole. maybe he needs to know it.

he needs an ass whooping

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