I'm Pansexual so I don't care about gender really and I'm a black non-binary person (my sex is female tho hence the Female in the title) so do not expect me to be super feminie or super masculine personality wise. Physically I have an hourglass figure but I'm like abt idk 190lbs so I'm not skinny lol just thick thighs, annoying large breast, etc, or overall I'm thicc as the cool kids say, working on losing weight tho. (Yes I'm on dating apps but I've had more fun on reddit meeting ppl so I thought I'd try to find love here too maybe. I am already chatting with some ppl but we are in the getting to know u phase just so I wouldn't message me if that bothers u, although if you're possessive I'd like to see if u can make me yours and yours only)

What else, I'm 22 in December, I'm a gamer (getting a PC soon but for now it's just the consoles Xbox Series, PS5 and Switch), I do love astrology BUT I don't treat it as fact it's for fun and helped me learn about myself, I also LOVE space, my favorite planet is probably Jupiter. Oh you'll find me often either watching video essays or gaming videos, playing my game, or journaling abt my thoughts. Ah and I'm very sexual person, I'm on birth control and don't ever plan to have kids so there's that. I'll take all the pets tho, snakes, dogs, cats, lizards, mice, ferrets, etc (not spiders).

My biggest pet peeve are lies

I'm graduating in Spring 2025 with my degrees in Psychology and Organizational Studies. I study Japanese as a minor. I'm going into HR as a career and research on the side.

As for who I'm looking for, I have a fairly good idea like someone paitent, open-minded, preferably a night owl but isn't a must since early birds can motivate me to actually get up in the mornings lol, you don't have to be insanely fit but not overly obese (I understand weight lost can be hard as I'm on that journey myself so I don't rlly care too much), someone with an education or currently in college and someone around me age sort of like 21-27. Oh and if you are black, white, Asian, I don't rlly care lol don't be shy to reach out, plus bonus points if you are Black or Asian lol.

Deal-breakers: I do have HSV (herpes) but completely asymptomatic meaning I show literally no symptoms making me less contagious as well. Yeah its embarrassing to admit but young ppl do dumb things, can't go back & change the past. I'm just happy I don't get any symptoms. I don't want kids, just not for me. I also have Depression and Generalized Anxiety Disorder so if you can't handle my depressive episodes or panic/anxiety attacks, or you aren't willing to learn I'm not for you. :)

Damn that was a lot, if you read this far, tell me what your favorite song is or who your favorite artists/band is :) Also I'm fine with sharing instagram for swapping photos but not going to send a photo of myself via reddit. For why, it is literally just how my anxiety works 😭 my mind finds it more nerve-wrecking to send a photo of myself rather than someone viewing it on social media due to previous trauma. I will reply sooner if you share your photo of yourself first or tell me abt yourself since apparently reddit isn't allowing ppl to send me photos anymore. Finally if you messaged me before, feel free to message me again, I can get lost in all the requests and weirdos.