I'm 49 and have the 'big three' that people seem to be keen on their partner having. My own place, my own car, and a good job. I am a professional musician and I'd love to meet other musicians as well.

I'm a dad with a dadbod, looking for someone who enjoys sex and is very open-minded, but also likes affection, kissing, holding hands, cuddling up, holding each other. Good conversation is a must, turn my mind on.

I'm very attracted to black women who are confident in their thicc body, comfortable in their skin, intelligent, sensual, and sexy. I would love to explore a dom/sub relationship, with me being the sub. Looking for someone gentle, affectionate, but firm.

I don't want to be super explicit about stuff because we can get to that in conversation, after we see if our personalities fit well. I like women who know how to use words and have a sexy voice. I'm a demisexual, and I also like women who value brains, personality, and confidence over the standard norms of physical attractiveness, as these are things that I look for as well.

Some things that I'm into are science fiction, stand-up comedy, upbeat humor, positive and feelgood vibes, 420, chilling at home watching TV, walking/hiking, cooking (I love to cook for people), and keeping things as low key and low stress as possible. I try to keep a welcoming home.

Spend some thought and time crafting a response. No need to send pictures, let's talk for a few, show me what you're about. I'm not in a HUGE rush to get things going, but I have been lonely for a while. I have made attempts to meet people and I find that my personality draws people in, but something always seems to stop them from wanting to take things further. I'm a kind, gentle soul who would like to share my time with someone else. No pressure or commitments, let's just be in the moment.