So I'll start with what I'm looking for in a person / relationship, and if it seems like something you are interested in, the next section will be stuff about me:

I'm looking for someone that I can talk to through the day, a phone call or text/messaging. Someone I can just send pictures or videos I found funny, or ask how things are going, or complain about work to. Obv not expecting all-day everyday communication, people have lives, I know I get busy with work and whatnot, but just having a consistent communication. I want to be with someone who will be ok with me teasing them and them doing the same. Someone that I can feel safe talking to about how I'm feeling or what is worrying me, or about all the like, serious or important things of life. But also someone who I can feel like I'm not being a bother when I send them dumb memes or talk about things I like. And of course, them to me as well. Someone who'll be encouraging and supportive of me and my endeavors, and I, them. Oh, and someone who is in my age range, /- 3 or 4 years.

I really like the idea of being lovey-dovey and cuddly. Saying "I missed you" when it's been a while, or being like "this made me think of you". Waking up to a message or call from that person, and saying goodnight. I would like to be with someone that shares my interests, too. Or someone who is open to sharing our interests with each other to explore each other's worlds. To be able to have times where we can just exist in the same room together and enjoy each other's company without necessarily needing to be doing anything in particular.

I've never been in a relationship, so what I'm describing may be a bit idealistic, but it's what I imagine when I think about it.

If that sounds like something you would also be interested in, here's some information about myself. It's a bit long, but I just want you to have a pretty good picture of who I am:

I'm a homebody, but I do like to go out now and then, alone or with friends . I like going to the movies a lot, I like the second hand store, and sometimes just going to the hardware store or walking up and down the aisles at a grocery store when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm interested in home improvement and handyman things, but I also hate doing them so it's a tough middle ground for me lol

I'm into nerd stuff like vtubers and anime and I play/stream video games. I like math and spreadsheets and technology and finances and travel. I used to travel a lot to hang out with my online friends around the country once or twice a year, but it's been a while since I was able to. Learning about and applying knowledge regarding loans and credit card points etc is fun to me, optimizing things and whatnot. I tend to do a lot of math and optimizing for games I like too.

I don't have any pets, I think I prefer cats? But I really don't think I am able to take care of one on my own right now.

I work full time at like a call center kinda deal (it's actually pretty chill), working 1-10pm, which I love bc I get to be home a lot more and do stuff in the down time plus have morning time if I ever have to do something. When I'm not working (or sometimes if I am while I'm working at home :p) I tend to spend time playing games, either alone or on stream, watching YouTube or some of the select few Anime and other TV shows that ive found interesting on streaming services (I am very bad at finding new things to watch on those).

I live alone in a house I got last year, have my own car, and I'm working on fixing up stuff about the property, cleaning it up etc. The interior is very clean, I don't like when it's super cluttered unless I'm too tired to deal with it, but the garage is a mess and the yard/exterior needs some work that I'm not too thrilled to do.

I used to spend a lot of time on my computer hanging out with my online friends, playing games, watching movies, just hanging out, but I haven't had many people to be able to do that with lately. I do have my irl friends that I hang out with occasionally, but it's kinda different. My online friends were the ones I was close with, whereas my friends from high school we just kinda hang out and play games and have food, nothing serious. I have a pretty good relationship with my parents and siblings, though I'm not sure I'd say we're "close", since like I said that was mostly with the people I'd met over the internet.

Cliché, but I'm pretty responsible, I get things done that need to get done. At work I'm one of the go-to people. I was always the go-to person in the gaming communities I was a part of too. People relied on me, and I kinda miss that. Not just for games specifically, but when I had groups of friends at various times in the past online, it was just nice to feel important and wanted.

If that alll still sounds good to you, feel free to dm or message me, and we can chat some more. I do use discord as my primary communication platform, so if you use discord too then that would be great.