I know it's a lot to read but I hope you do:

I'm a homebody, but I do like to go out now and then, alone or with friends . I like going to the movies a lot, I like the second hand store, and sometimes just going to the hardware store or walking up and down the aisles at a grocery store when I'm shopping for groceries. I'm interested in home improvement and handyman things, but I also hate doing them so it's a tough middle ground for me lol

I'm into nerd stuff like vtubers and anime and I play/stream video games. I like math and spreadsheets and technology and finances and travel. I used to travel a lot to hang out with my online friends around the country once or twice a year, but it's been a while since I was able to. Learning about and applying knowledge regarding loans and credit card points etc is fun to me, optimizing things and whatnot. I tend to do a lot of math and optimizing for games I like too.

I don't have any pets, I think I prefer cats? But I really don't think I am able to take care of one on my own right now.

I work full time at like a call center kinda deal (it's actually pretty chill), working 1-10pm, which I love bc I get to be home a lot more and do stuff in the down time plus have morning time if I ever have to do something. When I'm not working (or sometimes if I am while I'm working at home :p) I tend to spend time playing games, either alone or on stream, watching YouTube or some of the select few Anime and other TV shows that ive found interesting on streaming services (I am very bad at finding new things to watch on those).

I live alone in a house I got last year, have my own car, and I'm working on fixing up stuff about the property, cleaning it up etc. The interior is very clean, I don't like when it's super cluttered unless I'm too tired to deal with it, but the garage is a mess and the yard/exterior needs some work that I'm not too thrilled to do.

I used to spend a lot of time on my computer hanging out with my online friends, playing games, watching movies, just hanging out, but I haven't had many people to be able to do that with lately. I do have my irl friends that I hang out with occasionally, but it's kinda different. My online friends were the ones I was close with, whereas my friends from high school we just kinda hang out and play games and have food, nothing serious. I have a pretty good relationship with my parents and siblings, though I'm not sure I'd say we're "close", since like I said that was mostly with the people I'd met over the internet.

Cliché, but I'm pretty responsible, I get things done that need to get done. At work I'm one of the go-to people. I was always the go-to person in the gaming communities I was a part of too. People relied on me, and I kinda miss that. Not just for games specifically, but when I had groups of friends at various times in the past online, it was just nice to feel important and wanted.

I've never been in a relationship, a few almost relationships, and I've been really losing any hopes over the last couple years, moreso than I already was. Trying dating apps, joining dating discords, now this as well. As for what I'm looking for specifically.... "a relationship". Helpful, I know, but like, having someone to talk to, spend the day with, share trials and tribulations. Supporting each other, and sharing with each other the things that we each like big or small. Just like, idk "a relationship" and the things that come with that territory. I don't really know what more to say about that.... Someone I can be emotional and vulnerable with and feel safe talking to about things, and vice versa. I also like being lovey-dovey. Not like, gushy like the media portrays and makes jt look annoying, but I like cuddling and I like the idea of sitting or laying with someone or just kinda being in the room together relaxing.

And for what I'm looking for in a person, definitely someone close to my age maybe /- 3 or 4 years. Someone who's also into nerd things, since it'd be nice to share those interests because they are a large part of my life. As mentioned prior, someone who will be supportive and caring back to me. Also someone who'd be ok with teasing back and forth, and who is willing to take a relationship as a path for personal growth for the both of us.

Please feel free to dm if you want to know more. I'm always open to answer questions or chat here on reddit, or on discord (my preferred communication platform).