I am an honest and upfront person. With that in mind, let's get the alleged 'red flags' out of the way. I am currently going through a divorce, but it does not define who I am. Because of this, I know that I do not have the emotional bandwidth for a serious and committed relationship at this point in my life. I'm also currently living at my parents. While this wasn't my ideal option due to my separation, house and rent prices are currently INSANE and this will give me time to save for a down payment on my own place. I have at least two of the basic three people seem to look for. A good reliable car, and a great job.

With that out of the way, here are some other parts of the puzzle that is me.

I am a parent to three WONDERFUL children. They will always be number 1 in my life, but that doesn't mean I can't make time for other people and for my own self-care.

I am looking for friends who enjoy good conversations, maybe some good coffee, definitely some good weed, and low-key low-pressure situations. I am definitely 420-friendly and would love to meet fellow friends to partake with. Let's have some positive vibes and energy.

One of my favorite things to do is go to the movies. I'd love to see John Wick 4, or we could sit on the couch at home and watch a movie.

I am also a part-time professional musician and would love to meet fellow musicians or music-lovers. I play piano and sing. I also like going out to do karaoke, but haven't done that in a while.

As for anything beyond hanging out, I am open to being affectionate if the chemistry is there, but G to light PG-rated at the most. Hugs, cuddles, holding hands, MAYBE kissing, but that's the extent of what I'm willing to do. Not gunning for sexual activities as people often confuse intercourse for intimacy. I'd prefer to remove that from the equation for now so we can just relax, be goofy (gawrsh), laugh, and enjoy each other's company.

Looking for thoughtful, fun, and intelligent responses. Other than that, I have no expectations. Let's talk and see what we're into.