Hey everyone!

After being in the lifestyle for a few months and having some successful encounters, I’d like to share some things that I’ve learned. I decided to write this after seeing some negative posts recently about people not being able to find someone, or just shady encounters on the site in general. That, and there being a dearth of success stories.

Yes, meetups do happen, and I’d encourage anyone who is serious about it to not give up. I’m writing this mostly as a guide for guys, but I’m sure there’s some useful information in here for couples as well. Bad quality bulls can legitimately turn people away from the lifestyle, and that hurts everyone.

So here are my DO’s and DON’Ts of bulling (in Michigan 😊)!

👻 DO meet / schedule ASAP:

80% of the people you’ll talk to online will ghost you. You’ll talk for a bit, hit it off, and then… nothing! Sadly, this is just the nature of meeting people online. I hate it, everyone hates it, but it happens.

Because of this, talking to someone for longer than a few days is generally a waste of time. Most people who are serious about meeting will meet you right away, or will schedule something. Seek to establish a time and place as soon as possible. Couples will not follow up with you if more than a week passes.

Do not waste time talking to anyone “figuring it out,” “deciding,” or “busy this week” You will accrue a roster of couples who seem promising, but haven’t yet pulled the trigger, and likely never will. The following is how I met each couple initially.

Disclaimer: Obviously stay safe, meet in public beforehand if you don’t feel comfortable, let a friend know where you’re going, etc.

🤤 DO look decent:

This will be the only tough love part of the guide, but I think this goes without saying. Couples do not want an unattractive bull. Not every couple cares that a bull is taller, larger, or have a hot face, but it’s a sizable amount. Do what you can to look decent, whether that be losing some weight, trimming the beard, or not taking dick pics in your stained bathroom mirror.

🥱 DON’T be boring:

“send pics,” “wanna fuck?,” “I’m so horny rn” etc etc doesn’t work and just bloats people’s inboxes. Couples are only interested in what you’re able to provide THEM. Thinking with your dick (while fun), often isn’t very effective.

In your opener, send some information about yourself that people can quickly make a decision on. Be direct, and open. Would you trust a faceless anonymous person to fuck your wife?

😊 DO be respectful:

Most of the men in the relationships just want to see their wife/gf have a good time. Most of the women want to enjoy themselves with someone other than their husband. It isn’t about you. Be polite.

🤓 DO be active:

At the end of the day, it’s a numbers game. If you post more, browse more, and message more, you’re more likely to find an encounter. A few of mine were just being there at the right place at the right time.

That being said, quality matters way more than quantity. One post got me 30 messages, and another, like 3. Put a little bit extra thought into what you're posting, and the right people will notice.

😷 DO wear protection:

Every couple will tell you that they’re clean, as will every bull.

Are they telling the truth? Probably. Is it safe to assume then that every couple / bull you meet is clean and that you should never wear protection? Probably not. I have turned down some meetups because couples would refuse protection or refuse to provide tests / sexual activity.

This is up to your discretion, but couples generally appreciate when you use protection, and I’m generally weary of those who ask me NOT to use it without any caution!

🤖 DON’T message bot accounts:

Empty profiles, only fans, visiting Michigan for a day, anyone 18/19f, no post/comment history, etc. If you see someone post complaining about there being too many fake accounts, it’s because they’re dumb and message obviously fake accounts.

Conclusion

If you follow these rules, your dick will forever be hard and covered with the wetness of a million hotwives!

Let me know if this was helpful! I hope this helps someone find the connection they're looking for. These are just the things that have worked for me, and if you have any tips or personal anecdotes, leave a comment!