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I just need to tell someone. I canāt tell my friends My family Nobody else Because Iām not sure Iām gonna leave.
I found messages. Didnāt have time to go through all of them. A chick I had a gut feeling about back in Aprilā¦. She called him on messenger. I confronted him, he said it was a dealer. I didnāt believe him, I confronted him further. He denied I lost it He gaslit me
Friday he went ghost They were together, I read that in the messages. I am so angry that Iām not even angry. That scares me.
Now I have actual proof and I am devastated. 2 days before our 2 year (āDateāaversary) I havenāt even cried He literally fucking cheated on me. And I think Iām more mad at myself for not following my fucking gut the first time.
I added her on Facebook She accepted Sheās been sharing my public statuses for weeks. So she knew about me. Wtf??? I messaged her She hasnāt responded I just want her to send me the screen shots Because he wonāt show me if I ask to see his phone. I feel absolutely fucking shattered. Thanks for reading. Not really looking for advice Just needed to tell someone. Thanks for listening. I just wanna be numb. I want to get high and never face him But I have a 5 year old. Canāt do that. Feeling this sober is awful.
Oh also
She is out on bail
For attempted murder on her last boyfriend! wtf ?š¤¦š»āāļø This is insane
also SCREENSHOT all the instances of her SHARING YOUR STATUSES, and check the comments in case anything was ever said about you or hinting at you, etc. make sure they show time and date stamps cause that shit is creepy af already, but if y'all weren't fb friends and she was just stalking your page and then sharing your statuses to her own page from there..... that's super, super fucking creepy
girl, my heart goes out to you. i used to joke that "i must be colorblind because all i can see are green flags š š " but don't be too hard on yourself, you were gaslit by somebody who probably has years if not decades of practice, and the entire point of gaslighting is to have you so unsure of your own mind and perceptions that in a lot of cases, people won't even accept being told by others that they've been a victim of gaslighting. i'm here for ya if you ever want to (or need to) DM me, even if it's just to chat about unrelated shit or if you want suggestions for stuff to watch/listen to to help take your mind off things
BUT FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANTLY
- MAKE YOUR FB PROFILE PRIVATE (DON'T JUST BLOCK THEM) or if you can, deactivate it (choose the "this is just temporary" option). if you use Instagram, make that shit private too since it is owned by meta, and make sure to block him (and her account too if you have it or can find it)
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