My marriage was great until we both started using and it caused us to pull away from each other after a few years I'm no Saint and had cheated on her a fair amount . Then I went to jail and a supposed friend who is the definition of narcissistic and gaslighting moved in on her and it was a rap. I have tried to get clean and help her to do so with not much succes on my end and none on hers. Her new boyfriend was actually cheating on his girl to hookup with my wife and is basically a man whore that preys on weak women. So much so that he was actually very recently arrested for sexual assault of a 10yr old child and yet My wife stands by him. Not sure what it is but I can't get her to see the level of trash that he is. Point being our divorce is final next week and there's noting I can do to help her see how things really are and its really gonna end up fucking her up soooner than later . .

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