My(30f) boyfriend(26) has cut himself twice in 4 days. He dosent want me to tell anyone but I have no clue what to do. This is completely unknown to me. Effexor was prescribed to him about 4 weeks ago and Im wondering if it has anything to do with the automutilation. He told me the last time he hurt himself before this week, was 3 to 4 years ago. He is sheduled to see his doctor in 2 weeks. Should we wait it out? Am I overeacting? When should i be very worries? I dont know what to do !!!!!! Oh, and we live 4 hours apart, see each other once a week. He is moving in in about 3 weeks. Meaning, i cant really keep an eye on him.

Please help!!