33M gay — I’ve always been a social butterfly and outgoing everywhere I go. Clubs, beach, concerts wherever. I’m really good at making fast connections and being relate-able to people. I’m realizing right now this sounds braggy but just wait for it… once I’ve established a close friendship with someone I realize we have to have a pretty high level of communication at all times and I’m pretty transparent about every detail of my life with them. I also am very guarded when it comes to my family in the sense I don’t tell them a lot of details about my life even though we have a good relationship and they actually wish I would open up more.. eventually with my friends I find that our friendships dissipate and we grow apart naturally and I do the cycle over in another friend group. I keep in touch with a lot of the friends I’ve made and some I don’t… I also am a huge people pleaser to a fault and also try to fix people when it’s not my responsibility… Note: I’m also notorious for allowing people to treat me negatively like abusive intimate relationships or just being talked down to by best friends publicly. I also start relationships pretty quick with boyfriends when I like them and we get serious fast. But it always end with a big explosion… what does this say about me?! I know there’s underlying issues but sometimes I wonder how I am perceived. I am in therapy but I figured why not open up on Reddit and get more insight if possible… thanks fam!