In August 2021 we had a fallen out because I was too focussed on a break up of an FWB. She told me about a medical procedure, and I got too caught up in my heartbreak to even ask how it went. she rightfully called me out on it and told me she couldn’t be friends with me anymore. I took accountability and apologized to her and I haven’t heard from her since.

I’m still having a hard time accepting that our friendship is over and I’m hopeful that someday we can be friends again. Mind you during the friendship there were a few times where I let my BPD get out of control, and now I regret how I treated her.

I haven’t contacted her since I apologized, since the smart thing for me to do is not hound her. Is anyone else struggling with a similar situation? Is it valid to think that someday we can be friends again?