Friends! First-ish time user. (No success yet...) Background: 28 years old. Started with the Divs Cup Model 1 but could NOT get it in without EXCRUCIATING pain. :( Switch to the Lily Cup One (for teens lol) on the suggestion of a coworker. I can get it in fine but I can't seem to get it far enough up! I lose grip on the fold at a certain point and it will open "prematurely". It's mostly in at that point and I can sort of shimmy it up a bit further after it's open but I never seem to get the end bit in far enough as not to cause annoyance. Stem trimming isn't an option as it has a "loop" instead. Inside-out wear freaks me out because I'm terrified I won't be able to get a good grip to get it out! Any suggestions for this newbie who can't seem to get this right?!