99.9% of the posts on the R4R subreddit have just one objective in mind - either his/her/them or both orgasming at the end of a date. While an orgasm is nice, I find that it shouldn't be a singular goal for going out on a date.

I would much prefer a really good date or night out, no expectations for how a night will end, just enjoying in the moment and the activity we do together. Whether its exploring a great new restaurant, fab drinks at a cosy speakeasy style bar, a stand-up comedy show, exploring markets, a stroll on the beach to see penguins, or even just a nice cuddle night in watching something on Netflix (no MAFS please!).

That way if there are no sparks, then we both would have still had a great date doing something enjoyable. And if there is a mutual spark... then of course I'm open for a night of bedroom fun and (multiple) orgasms.

Join me for some "wanderlusting" around Melbourne?

I had some success from my last post, and met up with two great Redditors for some fun nights out. One progressed to kissing and making out. The other was just platonic with some flirting and light touches. Both were great dates in themselves, even though they didn't progress all the way to the big O!

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About Me: I'm 33, 170cm / 5'7", East Asian origin, British accent, slim build and fit, short black hair, no facial hair. I wear glasses. Don't smoke or do drugs. Social drinker, but am trying to go cleaner, so only the good stuff only and only for special occasions. Witty, intelligent, easily impressed/excited by new things. Professionally, I head up a digital marketing team. Based in the Southbank area.

Not looking for anything serious, for now - I'm initially here in Melbourne for another 5 weeks, visiting family who I haven't seen in three years. But I am moving to Australia permanently later this year from London. So whatever is on your bucket list to do in Melbourne... I've probably never done it. So lets go explore?

Safety, consent, willingness - are my core values when it comes to R4R meets. I am happy to share pics after we have chatted a bit, for safety reasons. And happy to verify and prove identity, for your safety (and for mine). I don't do drugs, and have always been STD free.