Hello everyone, I just wanted to share my thoughts on a beautiful session that I had with a couple last night. What was special about it the initial hesitation by the lady and how I managed to calm the nerves down so that the session could be mutually enjoyable.

A bit about me, I am a senior management professional with a global management consulting firm in the city. I am also a practitioner of Tantra and Yoni worship.

Now about the session. I was getting ready to go to sleep when I received a message on Reddit inquiring about Yoni massage. I explained how it works and share few naughty pictures with each other. As it’s a long weekend and I had plans, we decided to meet at my place.

The couple arrived around mid-night. Both very lovely and polite people. It was the first time I was hosting someone at my place so was bit anxious as to how the couple would be. Luckily they were clean, D&D free.

Anyway, we headed to the bedroom where the first question was well how do we get started. The lady was visibly quite jittery. I told them the best way would be to get naked and do a 5 mins meditation to calm everyone’s nerves. So we undressed and sat on the bed (me and the lady as the hubby wanted to watch and see how it goes). I put the timer for 5 minutes on google nest. After 5 minutes, we hugged and caressed each other. This greatly helped ease the tense mood for the lady which then led to an amazing night. Later hubby to joined in.

End result, the most important part in such situations is how you can make everyone comfort as it could be pretty daunting in the beginning. Just rushing in and getting it done is not the goal. Having a genuine connection, sensual and respectful session is the goal.

Keen to know from gents in this forum if they ever made an anxious couple calm down and how did they do it. Btw, in my case the couple were also teetotaller so no room for building the Dutch courage.