Seriously, where is the lesbian equivalent to grindr?

Scissr and Clitter no longer exist.

Her, Zoe & Taimi are basically just Hinge -- they are not a STRICTLY lesbian hookup app as they seemingly do not exist for us.

Im on Hinge & Tinder right now and although my bio CLEARLY states that I am ENM partnered pillow princess and looking for hookups only and a girls face to sit on, I routinely get messages asking me if I "really" just "only" want to hook up and do I "really" mean that I "dont even want" to date?

Um...yeah or it wouldnt explicitly be stated as such on my profile?

Its like cool, if youre looking for more than ONS/FWB/random hookups, do your thing -- but why message me if thats not what youre looking for when my profile clearly states thats all Im looking for and ask me "if Im sure" and if I "really mean it"?

I highly doubt that men looking for the same thing face the same questioning I do.

Is hookup culture frowned upon in the lesbian community?

Like, Im not using you if Im explicitly stating that I am in a partnered ENM open relationship and all I want is a female face to ride -- Im not lying to, manipulating or leading anyone on, I am being completely upfront about it but I do feel like theres a vibe in the lesbian community -- at least on these apps -- that its "bad" to JUST want to hook up.

My visible preference on my Tinder profile is "Short Term Fun" and I didnt select that I was "Open to More" yet I still get questioned if "all I really want" is a fwb situation heavy on the benefits and its like -- yeah, Im not being shy, indirect or passive about what Im looking for on my profile so whats with all of the questioning of if I "really mean it"?

Curious what others experiences have been dating online with apps as a lesbian and if they differ from mine.