My boyfriend (a clerk) for years lied to me and went to his co-clerk's house after their out rot duty. Alam ng subgroup niya, mga kaduty niya that time, and take note: kachat niya pa ako nung mga oras na yun. He told me pauwi na siya, yet he was there with that girl. I won't drop other details regarding what happened during and after (too much pain to even think about it), but that completely changed my perspective regarding dating in med.

Alam kong taboo yung cheating or any action/s close to it sa med, but do people really tolerate it? Paano niyo najajustify yung ginagawa ng co-clerks niyo na alam niyong nasa relationship, yet are doing things that could be considered cheating? "Wala ako sa lugar para magsabi" lines? Camaraderie?

And for those who are in a relationship na nagagawang magcheat and/or magsinungaling sa mga bf/gf nila, clerk man din o hindi, showbiz or non-showbiz, I'm so mad rn to even say "sana hindi niyo maranasan yung sakit na dinudulot niyo samin" and I won't pretend that I have a bit of pity towards you. May you experience that kind of pain and betrayal. May you be in our shoes, being lied to, tricked, and even manipulated, to the point na mapapatanong kayo sa mga sarili niyo kung ano bang ginawa niyo to even deserve it. You don't deserve any kind of empathy or sympathy from anyone. And when the time comes na nakalimutan na namin kayo and found someone way better, may you see how undeserving you are of the love we once gave you. You can all go and find less.