Personally, i (f19) really like building up tension before i have a nice and strong orgasm. Sometimes this build up lasts for days, and sometimes for just a few hours, it depends on my willingness to deny my throbbing clit.

Usually i have a partner to play with here, and it's much better with company. Our latest "adventure" was when i couldn't cum for 4 days or so, i never knew when i would be allowed to cum so the tension was always there in my denied pussy. When i finally got the lermission to cum it felt soo good i was mentally relieved.

On the third day i was so worked up i started being grateful for him not letting me cum yet so i thanked him which he really enjoyed. I really love that state and we plan on doing this again next week so i have a free day ;) (i'm a switch btw, but lately i'm more of a sub but after the next week, i'll be the dom)