My wife has a really good friend from work, they've been hanging out for 4-5 years, going to the occasional happy hour, etc. I've always encouraged the friendship, because she seems like a genuinely good person and has been supportive of my wife during some tough times. I knew she was married, but didn't know her husband that well. We're all in our thirties, kids, etc.

About 1.5 years ago, we all wind up at a BBQ, and he and I had a good talk over a couple of beers; we bonded over our shared love of baseball. We started hanging out to watch a couple of games, inviting each other to pickup games, etc. We all started hanging out more often, letting the kids play, going to the beach, etc.

Fast forward to today. Now, I'm friends with this guy (let's call him "T"), but I wouldn't say we're that close. I had text him and one other guy we play pickup with asking how they did the night before, as I couldn't go. Our other friend responded, and then 30 minutes later, we get a pic in the group text from "T" of a pair of great looking tits. T typically indulges on a Friday night, couple of beers, maybe some 420, so I'm assuming it was an accident. I don't get the feeling it was anything else. I think he meant to download the picture but somehow text it to us.

I gave him a way out and he played it off like it was a text from a girl his friend is hooking up with, he just wanted to share.

I'm pretty sure it's his wife's tits. I know her, she's very sweet and would be mortified if she found out this had happened. I'm torn between respecting her privacy or getting off to her pic multiple times. Either way, I have no intention of telling my wife or the other husband that I know it's her.

Feels like I have a bomb in my phone. I really want to jerk off to her, but I also don't want to start looking at her like that