Now, I like sticking with the same people over long periods of time because you develop trust and they know and learn about your body. I have a woman that I see every month. And once in a while, I crave a massage by a man. I have had a couple people from here come to my place and massage me . most of the time, I go to professional locations.

Started quite by accident. The story is in my profile. I was a young 22-year-old getting out of a relationship and a female massage Therapist slowly guided me through it for the first time. After that, I experimented more. Even went to Asian massage parlors for men and had the women massage me there. I’ve had a few experiences with men too most are amateur.

Be relaxed with the draping. Tell them what feels good. Maybe remove the drape yourself. As a girl, I probably honestly can get away with more than you. One time, I went to an Asian place and literally said that I heard you massage this and pointed to you know what and they asked if I was sure, I said yes. Because I was already wet from the massage. They promptly took care of me and made me finish very quickly. Talk to them and get them to feel comfortable around you. Maybe start a conversation saying it’s been a while or something like that. Small talk. I hear some people tell them that they’ve been there many times before even if they haven’t. Not sure if you want to do that. I never have. As long as you feel comfortable with each other, then it’s more of a natural thing. The best is to have a good professional relationship with someone. So they treat you really well.

Try Asian massage places or simply develop a relationship with a nice MT. Maybe you’d get lucky over time. Don’t get addicted. Don’t spend too much. Not worth it. Or date a massage therapist lol. You probably won’t have an issue dealing with amateurs trying to massage you. I’d get a good therapist so at least you get a great massage. The rest is agreed between adults.

Are you male or female?

The service that I receive is definitely not the normal service. I’ve been seeing the same therapist for a while, and we have developed a good relationship and she has done it as a friend. From a legal standpoint, she performs the action after the massage is complete and I pay for the massage. The rest is between consenting adults.

It’s usually only through word-of-mouth in my book

I’ll dm you

Honestly HEs are good just for pleasure but doesn’t compare to real chemistry with a partner

Agreed

I get them from women mostly.

Random but OK. so why are you talking to me about happy endings? Are you talking about the girlfriend?

I’m not implying getting a massage from a guy whatsoever.