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Hi everyone! Looking to organize a spicy massage for my girlfriend. She knows that I am organizing a sexy surprise for her, but does not want to be privy to the exact details/location/person, so that it feels more spontaneous. We are an early 20s (older than 21) couple who are new to the lifestyle, but excited to explore! She is a fit, petite, curvy, athletic, and super flexible asian girl that squirts when treated right and has a voracious capacity to receive pleasure. In her and I’s fantasy, I either accompany or send her solo to a massage appointment, one that she suspects may involve some certain level of sexuality, but she doesn’t know for certain. She will be blindfolded, and you will begin by massaging her properly, slowly (emphasis on the build up) lathering her in more and more oil, and teasing her increasingly. We both find it hot that she will be getting aroused while still not knowing absolutely certain if she is allowed to be, since the masseuse has not crossed the line of plausible deniability yet.
Even though her and I have a Dom/sub CNC relationship, obviously I understand wanting to have some sort of consent to take the next step - you should announce everything as a statement not a request, but give her the opportunity to refuse. “Im going to be getting a little closer to your inner thigh to reeeeeaaallly get to your sensitive spots” “does that feel good?” “Im going to go a little deeper now” anything like this that is not met with resistance can be take as an invitation to continue. After that, we will view the massage as a success if she is left a squirting mess by the end of it, and brought to the pinnacle of pleasure repeatedly and past the point of words. I will potentially be present for the massage, so the masseuse needs to be comfortable with me not only being around, but in the room and potentially involved.
Ideally for me, the massage will end with my involvement in what becomes a threesome. That being said - she is most likely not going to be ready for anyone that is not me to be going any farther than mouth and fingers, so that should be the expectation, and anything more than that would be a happy accident. Ideally, I still would like to finish her off and fuck her after the massage, whether or not she is ready for anyone else.
Tldr: Give her a plausibly real and relaxing massage, slowly teasing and building her up to the height of arousal, and then shattering her with orgasms for the rest of the session. I, her partner (m) may also be present and/or involved.
Some hard requirements:
- Between 22 and 30 in age, since she is not vetting anyone herself, there is no wiggle room this time, but hopefully if all goes well then this is more lax in the future
- The ability to host somewhere in Manhattan, ideally in a professional location or location with a proper massage set up (again please don’t reach out this time if not in Manhattan)
- The massage is free of cost - Totally reasonable that someone would want to charge for something like this, but we are looking only for people who are doing it out of sheer enjoyment this time
- No expectation of the masseuse going anywhere farther than using their mouth and fingers. Going farther is a possibility depending on how she is feeling in the moment, but should be viewed as most likely not to happen. This will be especially unlikely if I am not there with her.
- Comfort sending face pics beforehand without necessarily receiving any (if you want to communicate a bit first to confirm we are not catfishing, then that is totally reasonable, we are comfortable sharing pictures of most everything else).
- Comfort with the boyfriend/male half of the couple being present, speaking with her, perhaps touching her during the massage, and then finishing her off when the massage is ending.
Bonus points for who we will go with if between multiple people:
- Licensed General massage experience or Professional tantric Massage experience
- Comfort being filmed or audio recorded without necessarily receiving a copy
- Ideally Clean shaven
- Above average length and girthy penis (least important of the 4, since she most likely wont be ready for it to be used, but who knows how she feels in the moment)
Please respond with the word Kimchi in the opening to make it clear that you have read everything, anything else will be ignored. Excited to talk to you all and hopefully share a fun experience!
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