So this will be a quick introductory post as I navigate my way through MRP.

Quick Background - Married 16yrs - Met wife in college - Two kids (4 and 6) - Overall marriage is good (lots of bumps but overall good) - I grew up in a single family home | mom was great but no positive male role model (aka prime environment for a beta bitch).

So, I have been lurking around on MRP for about a year and have been applying the principles on and off. Recently I have decided to make more of an effort - and it has really paid off. We are both a lot happier with less arguments and more sex. What's really crazy is that now that I am buying into MRP I see where my wife has been asking me to be a better man throughout our marriage but I was a blind bluepill beta bitch (more on that in another post).

For this quick entry I just want to provide a quick minor example of how applying some simple MRP principles can do wonders. So for the last couple of months the sex life has been a bit off. We were averaging about once a week. Not being in my MRP frame of mind, I decided to communicate to my wife about the frequency of our sex life. When I brought it up she started complaining about the last time I "left her" (I came before her). I told her that maybe if I had sex more than once a week maybe I could last longer (this was all a pretty light and humorous conversation). She actually said that was a fair comment (what?). So I proposed that Wednesday should be our nookie night with optional Fri/Sat/Sun for weekend sex. So the goal was to set a minimum threshold - not a maximum. She agreed - nice! I know that appointment sex is not the hottest thing - but I am working on making it fun (theme nights, games and shit like that).

This was going okay for a couple of months. For the most part sex was good - but not the dirty hot sex that I wanted. So some things went down and I started doing a better job or applying the MRP principles. I started owning my shit. Got stuff done around the house without being asked. Started picking up after myself and made sure the house was spic and span, taking care of finances, fixing shit - not in exchange for sex, but because it was the right thing to do. When my wife hit me with some shit test and just crazy woman shit - what did I do? Escalate or STFU (depending on the situation). During sex, I stopped asking and just started doing - and would you believe it, for 90% of the time she followed my lead (bj's, positions we had not done in a long time). Sex got a lot hotter and dirtier - but will go into that later. Another tidbit is that when we started having the sex twice a week talk - she started telling me that her libido was lower and her orgasms were getting weaker. Really? Since I have been applying MRP she is hornier than ever and I swear the last time we had sex she came so hard I could barely keep my dick in her since her pussy was contracting so hard (had not felt that in forever). So - not every case, but low libido and weak orgasms - it is most likely really a lack of desire (thanks MRP).

The biggest change for me with intimacy with the wife had been Kino. I used to always get those little fucking pecks on the lips as I leave for work - which I hate. I have hated those "cousin" kisses she'd give me as I leave for work forever, but never did anything. So one day after reading MRP @ KINO I just gave her this deep 10 second kiss, grabbed her by the back of her neck and held her there - she was taken aback (but in a good way). It took a couple of weeks, but she got on the kissing program - long and soft as I leave for work. Now, I am touching her at various points during the day. Patting her butt, holding her hand - rubbing her back. One day she asked me " are your a horny teenager again or something" - I just looked at her stoically (STFU) - and then she says "I like it".

Wow just realizing I have so much to tell, but I will get to the point here. Last week we missed out on our appointed sex on Wednesday and the weekend (it was a health issue) - so we ended up having sex the next Friday morning (pretty good, but nothing crazy - i just wanted to fool around in bed but she ended up taking her bottoms off, so I obliged). So on Saturday around 11am I kiss her and tell her that I am going to give her a massage tonight and then ravage her. She replies "I am tired and have a lot to do - tomorrow honey". I am like WTF? You know at 11am this morning that you will be too tired for sex tonight? Now I probably should have dialed it back a bit to build up the desire - but things had been going so well (with sex and everything else) I did not expect to get rejected with a hard no (and had not had one in sooo long). It was really unexpected. So, while I was not 100% OI - I did decide that I had better things to do and I 'd do those things instead of paying attention to her.

I got shit done around the house. Went grocery shopping (I am the better cook and buy my own shit) and bought some ribs to bbq (which I promised my daughter to cook). I read some magazines that had been piling up, and went bike riding with my son. I did not ignore my wife but I made every interaction as minimal as possible. She asked "how's your brother", and I replied "good". That was basically the type convo's we had for the rest of the day. Also, I found any excuse to do something outside of her presence (whether it was manning the bbq outside or doing something in another room).

So after we get the kids to bed we are sitting on the couch about to do some binge watching. We are sitting on opposite ends of the couch - again, very minimal convo (not being a dick, but not giving her attention). What do you know...she leans in and starts to tickle me (she never fucking does that!). She says "What's wrong grumpy" i move away and she leans in to keep tickling me. Then she ask "can I still have that massage tonight?". I say "sure". So after we are done watching tv we head to the bedroom. She strips down to her panties (a pretty good sign she plans on getting some) - I give her a long massage (which I love to do) and sex is had. What's also key to note is that I can't remember the last time we had sex two days in a row - Friday and Saturday (I know it's sad, but married 16yrs and two young kids).

Before MRP - shit would have erupted when she turned me down that morning for sex that night. I have a long way to go with MRP, but just with few simple insights, I know what my wife really wants and how to make sure we both have a happy ending. This MRP stuff is fucking awesome. More to come.