Long story kinda short .

We are married and had a girl about 10 months ago, we had used a sperm bank as I'm infertile.

So she / wife has started acting like I'm a stranger when I'm with our daughter, like we were both taught to change her diaper in classes And at the hospital. Now I don't like doing it for obvious reasons, he kni don't like picking up the dogs poop in the backyard either . But it has to get done otherwise the lawnmower turns into a fertilizer and my legs don't like that shit ( pun or no pun there ) .

Anyway I know how to do it but she insists she be there ore to not touch her daughter. Yes did you here that too ? Her daughter. Another thing I like being a proud dad , I'm not DNA wise but I'm her dad still. And I like taking drives with her and ho about town to feel that daddy part . She asked me not to take her without her tagging along just in case . ? Just in case what ? Also we go to her parents house frequently as they like being with their grand daughter and I'm always held at bay bringing her into their house and she wants to hold her all the time .

Another is doing laundry for her is being witheld from me doing hers and she wants to be only one doing that . Okay so that's Less work for me you could say , but all these things don't add up.

Even me holding her , wife looks at me like into my eyes like I'm going to drop her or something like that. Like she doesn't trust me with our daughter.

This has led to me asking her what gives . I've told her that even tho I'm not her biological father doesn't mean I don't love her or care about her and you need to stop with this . She says she trusts me. But I told her actions speak louder than words.

She is not mine biologically but I'm her only father that sperm donor Jo in a cup and that was all he did , he's not her dad and never will be and your treating me like I'm some outsider. Everytime I'm holding her your right there like it's just a quick hold like you would let a real stranger hold her for seconds before your teaching out to take her back .

Is this how your gonna treat me ?

Like I'm literally just picking her up to hold her and play with her and your antsee and ready to grab her outta my hands .. WTF?