I have nowhere else to talk about this so just sharing here. Me and my long-term partner broke up a few months ago. We really loved each other but drifted apart so we ended things.

Before him I never really sought out a boyfriend but we fell in love and ended up having a long relationship. It wasn't bad and I don't regret it, he's still my best friend, but now that I'm single and living by myself I'm just so happy. Like sometimes I'll be taking a shower or something and just remember I'm single and just get so happy. Like almost a feeling of elitism because I've found this secret way of life that is sooo much better (of course better means different things to everyone, no hate for people who have a partner or families :) ).

I don't even want to date, I tried the apps just to see but they're too much work for so much meh. My ex is dating and I'm happy that he's getting out there but not jealous because I'm so happy this way. And no matter how many times I try to explain to my family that I'm happy that we broke up, not sad, they don't understand but I don't care because this is so much better for me!

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