I have struggled with addiction issues for the entirtyof my 14 year relationship now a week shy of our 3rd wedding anniversary and my wife is saying she wants to get a divorce and she is using the fact that I relapsed one time for one day after months of complete sobriety relentless efforts tword self improvement and considerable personal growth that we have both benefited from . Even in the total embodiment of selflessness surrender and unwavering commitment to being the best version of myself for her and our children . She would mention that she no longer feels close or connected to me and that she has lost her attraction to me a her partner. We separated briefly at her insistence last year and as we were in the process of reconciliation she stated that she sometimes wants to get out there and try her luck in the modern dating world and really take advantage of what she called her remains years of peak hotness where she could freely explore her sexsuality with others . I love her with all my heart I am so ashamed that my addiction issues have caused her pain and just want her to be happy and would do anything in my power to be the man she wants or atleast work endlessly to that goal till my dying day . Should I just let her go or should I fight like hell to keep her ? tl;dr Husband struggles with addiction but loves his wife to no end and commits to daily self-improvement and forgiveness for past transgressions
Wife. Declares she is 90% sure she wants divorce