I am a 24yo female. I LOVE my husband and find him incredibly attractive. I think about his muscles and his eyes a billion times a day and just how handsome he is. But for some reason I just don’t feel that urge for sex. I was never into hookup culture and have been this way with every person I have been with. Only having sex because it feels like I am supposed to, not because I want/feel the need to. When we have sex it is amazing (he gets me there every time and refuses to stop until I tap out). I even have multiple O’s most of the time. He mentions a lot how it makes him insecure or hurts his feelings that I don’t initiate sex often. And I feel TERRIBLE that I make him feel insecure because he truly doesn’t deserve that. I want to have a higher sex drive but have no clue why I am so different than everyone in that category. He had a porn/sex addiction before marrying me but has stayed true to me despite going from sex daily to maybe once a week since marrying me. What can I do to get my drive up? Please help me, he deserves so much more than I am currently able to give him!

Tl;dr

Help me find a way to increase my sex drive so I can satisfy my husbands sex addiction