So I have a second job and reveal very little (it pays less than my main gig). Long story short someone asked if I was ok and if I posted on Reddit. I answered yes to both.I then overheard a coworker mention to another coworker, oh yeah he X (detail I only posted on my FB and only told my mom and my mentor know) and I tried to make my fb private as possible, but that detail only would apply to me at my job and unless it is someone else not at my job, I find it odd and makes me wonder if she was stalking my Facebook (despite removing my photo and location and was way down on the list for my name). The funny thing is the girl has acted hot and cold but I really don't care either way but find it rather funny they just don't come out. The fact she was talking with my boss about it (who is younger ) just makes me laugh. Dude I am just a fucking introvert and yes I have my one life, fears, etc. . Go ahead and just ask me a question. I really don't know what to think about this stuff.