Iam 29 year old male, growing up I was only attracted to women, I've had a major foot fetish for as long as I can remember directed only towards women's feet, around the age of 12 I began realizing girls where always interested in the other boys and never me, around this age I also started noticing some guys had pretty feet like girls and figured I might have more luck for feet play with guys than girls who showed no interest in me, my lack of success continued all throughout high school and college causing me tremendous pain felt unworthy to even live, I had heard about Grindr in college and decided to give up trying with women I downloaded Grindr the night of my college graduation, and I've had alot of fun since then however it is very hard finding guys that like their feet played with, but it can happen. I have experimented with guys and have had alot of fun , but I really think none of this would have happened if girls would have given me a chance, I feel like I was driven to it out of desperation not choice Lack of sex in my opinion is devastating for a young man