I haven’t had an upgrade in about 10 years so it’d be great to get some advice on products. I know what I need but just don’t know where to start or what products to get (i.e. what works best in the Apple ecosystem if its not an apple product etc)

Here’s my list. Feel free to suggest other things:

• a monitor (ultrawide, two screens, have one vertical?? I’m a graphic designer. I know I shouldn’t get a curved screen but I also see reviews to not get an ultrawide, especially because outside of Apple they have glitches and aren’t as compatible. Suggestions?)
• keyboard
• laptop stand (More than likely I’ll get the 14”)
• monitor arm (I saw they range from $25-300 so maybe one in the $75-100 range)
• monitor light (I was thinking of the brands BenQ, Xiaomi. Suggestions?)
• new ear buds or over ear headphones (I have the Sony noise cancelling earbuds but theres like a 2 sec delay when watching video (supposedly because of the SBC codec) so I’d like to get new ones. These supposedly were the most compatible outside of Apple’s but the delay and short battery life kill the experience)
• cable management (I have an adjustable black Ikea standing desk)
• desk mat (thinking of the Grovemade)

I’m pretty minimal and sleek as far as style and I like grays, blacks, dark blues for equipment. Any other info let me know. I appreciate your help and looking forward to posting a pic when its all set up!