Who is this guy:

I'm 36, jack of all trades, master of none, returning to school and in my final semester before applying to anything and everything in the webdev field, or trades again by the looks of it. Looks wise, Mr. Clean with a dad bod. 6'0, 166 lbs, shaved head and eastern euro looking face. Have been lifting with a basic home gym set, so if you're also building your summer body (a bit late) maybe we could lift together too? I've got out of a monogamous vanilla relationship at the end of last year, so am now looking to deep dive all my kinky desires, slowly, steadily and thoroughly.

Kinks:

Full disclosure, I am very well read on kinks but am almost completely without practice. I have done a few edging and sex sessions with bondage, but outside of that, its been very vanilla.

As for what I am into (copied from fetlife page):

Aftercare, Age Play, Anal, Anal Beads, Anal Hooks, Anal Sex, Analingus, Ass Play, Ass to Mouth, Ass worship, Bareback, Begging, Belt Whippings, Biting, Blindfolds, Blow Jobs, Body Worship, Bondage, Breath Play, Candle Wax, Caning, Chains, CNC, Cocksucking, Collar and Lead/Leash, Control, Crops, Crying, Cuckold, Cuckolding, Cuckqueen, Cunnilingus, Daddy/little, Degradation, Discipline, Edge Play, Erotic Massage, Exhibitionism, Eye Contact, Face Slapping, Facials, Fear, Flashing, Flogging, Gags, Genital/Nipple torture, Worship, Hair Pulling, Handcuffs, Humiliation, Kneeling, Lingerie, Master/Slave, Masturbation, Mind Fucks, Master/slave, Oral Sex, Orgasm Denial, Pain, Public Play, Punishment, Role Play, Rope, Rope Play, Sadism, Sadomasochism, Sensual Domination, Sex In Public, Sexual Slavery, Shibari, Silk, Slapping, Spanking, Spitting, Spreader Bars, Squirting, Strap-ons, Suspension, Swallowing, Swinging, Switching, Talking Dirty, Tearing off Clothing, Tears, Throat Fucking, Tit Fucking, Tongue Sucking, Tongues, Total Power Exchange, Toys, Verbal Humiliation and Degradation, Voyeurism, Watersports, Wax, Wax Play, Whipping, Whips

I also used to post solo themed nude stuff on reddit way back before onlyfans, would be kinda hot to make short videos and pictures, but only if you're into/open to it, and after we are very comfortable with each other.

But I am also a daddy/dom that loves to please. If it turns you on, I want to learn how to best provide it to you. I am willing to try and explore any and all of your kinks, from age play to CNC, I am looking to explore any authoritative role that gets us deeper into our kinky needs and desires.

What I am Looking For:

Communication first and foremost. I don't care your level of experience, as long as you are okay with mine, or lack their of. But as we get to know each other, I'd like it to be over the course of good conversation, you don't need to write as much as I did by any means (although I love thorough texts), but I don't want "hey" or "do whatever you want to me, when are you free"

I am looking for a guy or girl bottom over 25. I am into anyone from skinny to skinny fat or dad/mom bod. I am indifferent to your gender or genitals, although I will admit, while I am a pansexual, I have only been in in relationships with vanilla guys. So if you have a vagina, while I do know how to please you as a person, I don't know how to please you as a woman(/vagina... haver? Sorry I'm out dated in terminology :P), yet.

Which is why I am open to being a sub to a soft dom woman who would teach me how to work equipment I am not familiar with :P I am very eager to please both kink and genital needs, but am a little out of my element to some peoples bodies.

So if this sounds like anything that fits within your borders of desires, and you're looking for a ltfwb/ltr, feel free to reach out! Would love to hear more than just your kinky wants and needs, I would love to hear about your hobbies and interests you'd like to be able to share while we aren't covered in sweat and sin ;)

But its also this subreddit so I kinda do ;)

Also none of my kinks are set in stone. If we have any overlap, I am 100% willing to play within our overlap and not push any boundaries, so don't feel like you if you aren't into enough for us to have a good time together!

Happy hunting!

Daddy J

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