I see a lot of groups looking for women and want to give you some tips to help you.

1. Use the word women not females. The word females has been commandeered by incel and red pill movements. You instantly make women feel unsafe and if that is not your intention consider using the word women.

2. Tell us the vibe of the group. Is it D/s where women are only welcome if they like to be degraded and passed around? Is it a chill public play group? Is it more femdom leaning? Is general chat encouraged or discouraged? We are more likely to reach out if we know what it’s like so don’t be vague.

3. Is it a safe space for women? If it is give details on why that is.