So my husband and I are watching a movie last night, and the premise of the movie is the guy sends his wife and kids away for spring break so he can do whatever he wants. Basically the second they walk out the door and he’s in the bed looking up porn, his daughter forgot something and barges back into the room, and his wife does as well and she says “oh my gosh I’m sorry go ahead and finish” and walks out with her daughter. I’m just at a loss here… this all seems toxic and cringey to me?? Anyways I know my husband is over there thinking “how come he gets to watch it…” or “wish my wife was like her…” anyways end of the movie kinda wraps up and he sorta learns?? I don’t know it just struck me wrong… how do you guys handle things with a PA if society keeps silently telling them it’s fine, and we as the SO are wrong??