Not entirely related but I read someone's post about how their man started getting very angry whenever he started watching it again so maybe it is related.

This morning, we were having a normal conversation. If he ever has his phone in his hand, he basically does not hear me. During this conversation, I asked him to check the bank account just so I could kinda plan our day and budget and stuff. He says okay. Then, I just start talking about our plans to take our baby swimming later. Nothing important. After a few sentences, I could tell he wasn't listening. (He's on the toilet while we are having this conversation while I'm in the bedroom) I told him that it really bugs me when he just flat out ignores me. He almost immediately gets upset, saying that because I had just asked him to check the bank, I should know he wouldn't have heard me. He normally checks the bank while doing multiple things. I've seen him play a game on his phone while cleaning out a litter box so I know it's possible. Apparently, there was a different amount in the bank than expected, after he checked it, everything was fine. (It was off by maybe $5 from a restaurant tip that took a while to go through) I told him that had he just told me he was trying to figure that out, I would've known he wasn't ignoring me and that would've been that. Then he says "well you asked me to check the bank". I told him that I understand but normally that takes a few seconds so had he just let me know something needed his attention, I just would've known. That's all. I wasn't hugely upset at this point so I didn't understand why he was immediately angered. He starts saying how I always have to be right and how I can never be wrong. I told him that I didn't see this as a right vs wrong situation. I just wanted to let him know the communication I needed amd ,again, it really was NOT a big deal to me. I try to calmly explain this to him so we can get on the same page and he gets mad that I'm "talking to him like he's a child" and how "the day started out so good". I asked him why it made him so angry when i talked to him about my feelings because this has become kinda regular. He just said that "i asked him to check the bank" then the cinversation became circular. Now I'm in my baby's room, trying to compose myself so I don't make anything worse. I just wanted to communicate. It all seems stupid now and not worth the trouble but I definitely didn't think it would lead to all this. I'm confused. I'm disheartened to think that this is how my life will be. I'm a SAHM. No income outside of doordashing... I just want to be understood. I don't want to fight and when I talk calmly, he says I'm being condescending. When I get the slightest bit worked up(I cry lol), he gets loud and even angrier. I know this is such a stupid thing to argue about.

SIDENOTE And now, while I'm in here with our daughter, he's cleaning the whole apartment. He cleans the entire apartment after every arguement but doesn't bother to talk to me or adjust any behavior or provide any closure.