I know it sounds stupid to be this upset but I went to look at his phone tonight and he’s changed his password. It’s been the same as mine since we were dating. We’ve been married 8 years. I’m gutted over this. When I confronted him he said he “isn’t doing anything” and that it’s a “personal issue” because he just doesn’t like that I go through his phone. Also, that if I really want he can unlock the phone for me. If you’ll unlock it why can’t it stay unlocked? Not that I trusted him before but now it’s like I just know he’s up to some shit. Do I change mine now, too? The kicker is, I found this out right after we were intimate (a maybe 1 time per month occasion, his choice) and I am so upset.