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My husband and I have had a lackluster sex life for years. He always had a different excuse: stressed, getting older, etc. I learned a little over a year ago that it was actually that he was watching and getting off to porn 2-4 times a day. I also, in hindsight, noticed other signs such as being distant during sex, having getting off be the only goal, thinking foreplay was me blowing him, deathgrip, etc.
When I was at the end of my rope, he finally admitted after months that he believes he’s a PA/SA and signed up with a CSAT. Then he claimed he realized he was actually lying to me about his porn use and being a PA/SA and used it as an excuse so I wouldn’t feel bad about him not having sex with me 🤔.
During our last discussion I kept grilling me on why he didn’t have sex with me for years if it wasn’t the porn. His response? “Let’s face it. Sex isn’t the same since you had our daughter five years ago. You’re much looser now.” Just when I didn’t think I could be blamed any more….
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