I honestly love seeing the flair EX partner. For so long I felt trapped, I felt like shit because I didn't want to be alone and put up with all the bullshit. Seeing those flair was the only thing that reminded me that people do get out, seeing you guys so happy being single or in your new relationships makes me so fucking happy. I finally gathered the strength to leave after 3.5 years and I've felt better than I have in a long time. The crushing weight of always snooping and wondering when the next lie or relapse will come is gone. The need to control everything and constantly wondering what he's doing is gone. We had a kid together and we have to live together but really I've never felt so good. I am working out, making friends again, getting educated. I dont actually know what he's doing because I don't really care!

It's really like breathing fresh air after being trapped in a burning house. 10/10 would recommend.