Hey guys, so here's some context. I'm a 21M who lives at home with my parents and goes to college and work. I'm on my last year of college and I ever dated anyone. I've had a lot of crushes but nothing ever came of them. Whenever I tried to initiate something, they always say that they're in a relationship. I'm aware that I've tried to move in too quickly and that's probably the issue. Or, maybe it isn't and there's more to it and I'm not seeing it? I tried using Tinder and Bumble and got a good number of matches but they've never led anywhere. Conversations would begin and we'd talk for a bit and then they'd ghost me. Some people have told me that I'm handsome, funny, and fun to hang out with. Sometimes I do feel that way, but sometimes I don't.

However, now that I'm almost done with college, I'm beginning to worry that I might not find someone at school and will have a harder time afterwards. Before COVID, I decided that I might try attending more events and joining clubs at school to meet people. But now, it might be too late for that. I feel really bad about myself and heartbroken from my experiences. I'm not the kind of person who goes to parties or clubs or anything, so I don't think that that will change when I'm not in college. I'm just scared of graduating single and regretting not trying harder in my younger years to find someone.