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When did you know that you had fallen in love with your partner? Was it instant when you saw them? Did you realise it after a while of being apart? Was it after years of goofiness? I’d love to hear your stories.
P.S. I think I may have tripped and fallen in love, I fear. I have told someone I loved them before but it didn’t feel like this. This love is patient, kind… you know the rest. I’m just curious to know what sealed the deal for others. Hopefully I can then pluck up the courage to vocalise how I feel.
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Edit: I’ve loved reading the experiences you’ve shared so I wanted to share mine!
I met this man in an airport while waiting to board my flight. At this time everyone was still wearing masks (covid) but we locked eyes when I bought something and there was an immediate spark. I wanted an excuse to see him again so I went back and bought something again LOL. It worked well for me because he gave me his number :)
We stayed in touch over the years, had a few failed meet-up attempts but finally got to see each other again earlier this year. We spent a few uninterrupted days together and it was just… bliss, I believe they call it :’) I feel like a child when I’m held by him. He makes me feel light and airy. Giddy. I don’t think about my insecurities when I’m with him. Two different cultures but he’s open to learning more about me as I am with him. A message from him quite literally lights up my day. In the days we spent together, I remember the long gazes we’d share. Stare into your soul type of gaze. With him though, I wasn’t afraid. I want to open myself up to him. That’s when I knew. Heck, maybe even from the first time we locked eyes all those years ago, I knew he was someone special even though I knew nothing about him. So grateful for those eyes and can’t wait to see them again.
There’s a short version :’) <3
When I met my long distance partner in person for the first time.
Don't get me wrong, I really felt like I loved him before but being together in person is a totally different experience. Everything he does feels so tender and loving, and I've never felt so understood and accepted by another person.
Anytime he takes a sip of a drink or eats anything he offers me some. The way he holds my hand is so gentle and sweet (and anytime he kisses it my heart flutters). We only had one chair and proper table at the hotel we were staying at and he would always let me sit and eat comfortably first even if it meant he was standing or awkwardly eating on the bed. When he walks by me he'll squeeze my arm or pat my shoulder or just one of any number of small gestures that show he likes having me in his space.
I also got my period like two days into that trip and I'm usually useless and in pain for the first day or two. he comforted me when I needed it, wasn't upset or disappointed in the slightest and would always ask if I needed anything.
I'm spending my second in person visit with him now and he keeps making all these opportunities for me to meet all his friends and hang out with them because he wants to include me.
I know all of this probably sounds like typical partner stuff but I had really never experienced a pure, sweet unconditional love like this ever in my life and had started to think I just never would.
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