I've done the weight loss thing a few times in my life. The most successful being when I ate one meal a day and intermittent fasting. I lost 50 pounds and kept it off for over a year.

Pandemic hit and I moved in with my boyfriend I'm now almost back at my weight before I lost it all.

My boyfriend had a talk with me about how he's worried about the gain and he doesn't want me to continue and get bigger. I agree! 100%!

Here's my struggle: he has gained weight too. He works all day so he burns a lot more of the calories off than I do. But when he's home, he indulges: hardcore. He's insanely addicted to sugar and has got me addicted with him. Today I complained that I'm tired of eating garbage and I want something healthy!! I want REAL FOOD. And he says "I'm not hungry" why aren't you hungry? Oh yeah! Because you made a batch of cookies, had fried food for breakfast and now you're stuffing your face with chips and salsa. We live in one room semi divided and attempting to not indulge when someone is basically throwing delicious food in your face (while also sometimes offering it) seems impossible! I yelled at him that he can't expect me to lose weight when all we buy is crap, he doesn't help me with the dishes so I can cook anything and he gets mad when I buy good food because it's expensive!

I feel like I'm never going to lose the weight while we live together. I'm furious about it. I hate my body right now I never thought I would let myself get back here and I feel horrible every time I see myself in the mirror. I know I have to just be strong, say no! But when I say no, and he proceeds to leave the cookie right next to my side of the bed like shit dude I can't win here!!

I'm tired I don't know what to do. Help?