First off, everyone deserves comfort and freedom. Everyone. So regardless of anything, just from you being a living breathing being, you truly deserve respite. Yes, you, specifically you! It’s not just for people who have more time, or find themselves at different crossroads of life, or just for entertainment and fantasy. You, the individual reading this post, deeply deserve somewhere in life to be at ease. To be cared for, to feel connected, to share in passion & joy.

While we all deserve freedom, the inverse rings true as well - nobody deserves to feel trapped. Whether it’s stuck in the monotony of a daily routine that is a bit too settled, or worse, nobody deserves to dread going home…to feel the unease of going to sleep another night next to someone that makes you feel unwanted…to feel unheard and alone, without the freedom and true independence one has in solitude.

You’re smart. Like, pretty damn smart. You exude true beauty as well, even if it’s not always easy to feel that way. You work hard, you have so much love to give, passion inside, and care for those who truly value. And the fact you don’t have that passion and care reciprocated, that it feels like you give give give, but get barely anything in return…it’s unfair, and it’s understandable to feel like “this is just how it is now”, that it’s almost too late to be happy.

It’s not. It’s never too late to find where joy you can, to feel alive, and to have people in your life that truly value you for everything you are.

If this post resonates with you, I’d love to chat. If you’d like to introduce yourself and share some of that passion inside, ask me questions and pick the brain behind this, or just vent a bit to an open mind that’ll hear you with no judgements, my inbox is open.

Because I want to share in that passion. I want to grow connected to someone again, to truly build a bond that fills with excitement and anticipation for each message, every whimsical conversation and laugh shared…to every embrace, kiss, and indulgence & acceptance of physical wants and desires. No situations will change, nothing outside of our bubble will have any indication of what we share. But inside our bubble, it will be electric. Passionate, loving, exhilarating, satisfying, enthusiastic, gleeful. We’ll build a world together that can be everything we want, to have a true safe space to look forward to, being wholly uninhibited with another person.

However we connect, you deserve your joy. Maybe we chat a bit and just don’t feel that chemistry with each other. Perhaps it’s a comforting conversation from quite a distance, where we know something in person and more involved isn’t likely.

I’m hoping I do come across the right person at the right time for this, and we can share something special. Having that comfort, and being cared for would be really nice myself. But I mainly want to be the giver for you. To bring you some silence and stop all the buzzing and worries for a bit, to show you just how much you’re valued, wanted, cared for…loved. To be lucky enough to spark a smile from your beautiful face, to grow that smile into that deep hard to breathe laughter that just feels so damn good to share with someone. To share a mind open to your wants and desires…eager to learn your body, your tendencies and favorites, all the little things you look forward to that make you truly feel heard.

As for myself, hopefully just from reading this post, you have at least an inkling of what I might be like as a whole. But for a bit more to chew on - I’ve got a pretty average build, a bit above average height and HWP. Dark curls reminiscent of Jimi Hendrix or Jim Morrison. Somewhat boyish charm, with a playful penchant for the absurd & surreal. This post is a bit more serious in tone I suppose, but I’m a pretty silly dude, being goofy is fun. Creatively inclined, with a deep love for music, interactive arts, writing, comedy. Lighthearted and easygoing, but love unique adventures & experiences with those I care for. Sensual and affectionate, communicative and open, curious and patient.

Discretion will always be taken and respected, and as much as I seek an ongoing consistent connection, there will always be understanding for navigating the schedule of life. If you’re in your 40s/50s , around the westside/LA area, and want something all encompassing like this, I’d truly love to hear your thoughts, and get to know each other a bit. If you’re not exactly in that description, but this has really caught your interest, you’re welcome to reply as well - we all know what we like, and what’s competitive for us…but every personal connection is unique, so I’m open to the possibilities. Pics aren’t necessary from the jump, but being able to verify and having intent to meeting up in person eventually are important, but just be honest about what would be possible and what wouldn’t.

Let’s see what we can make of things.